this idea of a Soulmate has to end.
nobody else can hold up your world but you.
and no one is going to fix all your problems, or heal all your wounds.
there is just way too much emphasis on the "magic" happening.
magic is an illusion, relationships take work, period.
i'm not against the idea that we can create a soulmate.
it just means that each of us can work on our relationships,
making them stronger, and more fun, and successful.
but it takes hard work.
i'm also not against the idea that you can create soulmates in most relationships.
we just have to be happy and strong, and meet other happy, strong, loving people,
and choose to build a great friendship, relationship, marriage, or whatever.
and i could be totally wrong, of course.
maybe it is soul energy?
or maybe it's just basic chemistry?